Monday, July 26, 2010
Sunday, July 25, 2010
Sucka for a Love Song.
Since I was a little girl I remember jammin to Toni Braxton, Keith Sweat, New Edition, R.Kelly, Next, Jodeci, Dru Hill, Jagged Edge, Ginuwine, Usher, 112, Aaliyah, SWV, Xscape, Brian McKnight, Donell Jones, Blackstreet, Case, H-Town, Silkk, I can go on! I didn't even know how 'grown' the music was at the time.
I always got in my brother's and sister's cd's and the music just never left me! I seriously listen to love songs 24/7. As I grew older my list of r&b grew out of control. Very seldom do I listen to the radio or rap.
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Just give me some headphones with my r&b and I can lay there for days...
Men you date & men you marry.
They say you can’t turn a ho into a housewife. Well, you can’t turn a hoe into a husband either.
The other day I came across an article on lust vs love that I seriously loved.
In a nut shell the article stated that some women make the mistake of being infatuated with the person who treats them poorly as opposed to the man who adores them and gives them the world. This is very true with a lot of women. I find that a lot of these women are either immature or have low self-esteem. Some are infatuated with the whole "thug" image and dream of dating drug dealers who in return beat and cheat on them.
From personal experience, when I was younger I didn't want the good guy because that meant we were going to date for a long time and I was not ready. But I was also a teenager. I learned that both good guys and the bad ones can break your heart, but realized that the stupid girl image was not for me.
The article refers to Jazmine Sullivan's song called "I'm in love with another man" which pretty much says "it's not you, it's me". Sound familiar? Wasn't long before I realized that some men do this too. Sometimes they feel like they don't deserve a good woman and instead would rather settle for less. Sometimes these situations leave the good person feeling unworthy, but the truth is they are better off with someone of the same caliber, someone grateful.
The other day I came across an article on lust vs love that I seriously loved.
In a nut shell the article stated that some women make the mistake of being infatuated with the person who treats them poorly as opposed to the man who adores them and gives them the world. This is very true with a lot of women. I find that a lot of these women are either immature or have low self-esteem. Some are infatuated with the whole "thug" image and dream of dating drug dealers who in return beat and cheat on them.
From personal experience, when I was younger I didn't want the good guy because that meant we were going to date for a long time and I was not ready. But I was also a teenager. I learned that both good guys and the bad ones can break your heart, but realized that the stupid girl image was not for me.
The article refers to Jazmine Sullivan's song called "I'm in love with another man" which pretty much says "it's not you, it's me". Sound familiar? Wasn't long before I realized that some men do this too. Sometimes they feel like they don't deserve a good woman and instead would rather settle for less. Sometimes these situations leave the good person feeling unworthy, but the truth is they are better off with someone of the same caliber, someone grateful.
Ultimately, I realized that I am not alone on this topic. See article here: http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/07/there-are-men-you-date-and-men-you-marry/
Taurus.
I think I am the proudest Taurus around. Anyone who knows me knows that I am crazy about zodiac signs. I believe that our zodiac sign tell us so much about our personality and character. Every person is definitely different, however we have certain traits that we have in common with people born under the same sign. We all have good traits and of course, flaws.
Of course the most popular trait of the bull is stubborn. The bull is mellow and hates change. We do not like being the center of attention and are fairly quiet until pushed over the limit. Then comes popular trait number two, bad temper. Taurus are known for their extreme temper and short fuse!
On the same hand we are super affectionate and romantics! We are very loving, caring, loyal and sensual.
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Of course the most popular trait of the bull is stubborn. The bull is mellow and hates change. We do not like being the center of attention and are fairly quiet until pushed over the limit. Then comes popular trait number two, bad temper. Taurus are known for their extreme temper and short fuse!
On the same hand we are super affectionate and romantics! We are very loving, caring, loyal and sensual.
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